How many dates are you supposed to have before you have sex with someone? Sounds like a question an adolescent might ask or a teasing ploy for reeling in a mate? The fact is that many intelligent single-adults are asking how long they should wait before they get physically intimate with their dates.

First of all, dating rules don’t work the same with everyone. Each circumstance is different and every one you date is not going to be the same. Here are a few tips to help you make the when-to-get-intimate decision.

Make Up Your Mind

Decide before you get into a relationship. Do you want to take things slow or are you looking for a sexually intimate relationship. This can help you avoid those morning after regrets that result from lust at first sight.

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Having an orgasm is such a wonderful feeling, or that’s what women say. No one’s really been able to explain the experience very well, but a bunch of scientists recently studied the phenomenon of orgasms in detail and have figured out one important fact. That women do get ‘turned off’ by sex and orgasms!

Surprisingly, at the moment of orgasm, women do not have any feelings! At the study that was conducted by a few scientists, using a brain scan, many areas of the brain get switched off during an orgasm. And the area that gets switched off include the regions of the brain where we feel pain or emotion! There is literally no emotional feeling for women when they reach for the skies, and it doesn’t matter who’s around. Everything goes into a haze, and the urge to orgasm overrides everything else. It’s no wonder many couples who make out in public don’t really mind being seen if they’re already in the middle of the act, adds the study.

Another aspect that was verified is the universally acknowledged myth, that women cannot enjoy sex unless they are relaxed and free from worries and distractions. Fear and anxiety levels drive down the chances to orgasm while having an intimate moment for women. It’s no wonder, women worry so much about their appearance and feel quite unsexy at times. And unknown to them, it’s their feeling of ‘unsexyness’ that results in bad sex.

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Put on your dancing shoes and tie those laces, and start thinking about joining a dancing school. If you want to woo your unfound love! Studies have shown that good dancers are more desirable than the ones who can’t dance.

When we’ve always looked at dancing as a recreation and a means to tone our bodies, scientists at Rutgers, New Jersey have for the first time linked dancing ability to mate in humans. Several dancers were asked to dance in front of an audience, with their face masked to avoid any considerations based on facial appearances. The audience evaluated the most desirable ones based on the dancing skills, and it was seen that the ones who were picked as the best and most desirable dancers.

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We’re all psycho when we it comes to dating games. We feel a teeny weeny bit jealous, insecure, frustrated or overly lovey-dovey once in a while. But at times, you may find that you’re dating a guy, who’s all that and more! So do these psycho-boys leave any clues behind? Of course, they do! Check these out, and see if your guy shows any of these signs. If he is, run out of his sight ‘with your’ arms high in the sky! This guy’s nothing but trouble!

Communication 24/7

We love exchanging all numbers possible when we’re in love. You want your man to have your cell phone number, your landlines and your office numbers, which is sweet, if not overdone. But psycho-boy can go all out. He’d give you his best friend’s number, and his granny’s! He’ll make it a point to call you every few minutes. You’ll have to make it a point to pick up the call, even if you’re in the loo! An unanswered call will be followed by messages that say, “Hey, it’s me” until it morphs into “I’ve called l2 times hunny, you’re pissing me off so bad I want to beat you! So where are you?”, and finally “Pick up the phone, bitch. I swear I’m going to boil you alive if you’re acting funny!”

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