Let’s Talk About S-E-X
Ever found yourself wanting in bed, but just don’t know how to tell your partner without upsetting them? Here we give you a few tips you could use to have a better time in bed.
In a good relationship, talking about sex is unnecessary, right? Sex is what you do, when
you are in love, and can understand each other all the way from the first to the last vibration in bed. Very true… if you’re talking about movies. But if you assume that sex can be ground shattering each time you do it, then you’re probably going to be disappointed quite often. Talking about sex is essential in a good relationship, because sex is a learnt behavior that involves many assumptions. Your partner may actually think he or she is pleasing you by doing something, and deep inside, you might just hate that move. By not telling them about it, you may think that you’re not hurting their feelings. But on the other hand, you’re actually building up a steam of frustration inside your head that can explode any moment.
Sweeping issues about sex under the rug can do unnecessary damage, and eventually one of you may pull away from sex, only to start hating it with your partner. Many of us may have the gift of gab, but clam up when it comes to sex. The reason why many of us don’t talk about sex is because it is directly linked with our self worth and image. If we don’t enjoy sex or some aspect of sex well enough, we assume that there’s something wrong with us for not liking it, which is not the right way to solve a problem. In some cases, you may have complaints about your lover, but that just makes it harder, because you wouldn’t wish to hurt their feelings by being rude to them.
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