We all love slang, and using slang to describe romance, until it gets over-killed. What was hot a year or two ago now seems so passe. Uber-uncool. If you’re jumping into the dating scene again, it might help to know a bit of the latest dating slang. Not necessarily to use it successfully, but at least to understand. Of course, there will be some reading these terms, rolling their eyes and saying: duh, that was so yesterday…! But many people in the mainstream are a few years behind the hipsters, and those facing dating again after a break or pause could use some wording up help:

The Ladies:

A bunny boiler: A woman who gets crazed, obsessive and is scary. From Fatal Attraction, the famous scene of the pot on the stove, boiling-?

To glomp: Similar to a bunny boiler, but less drastic- a little desperate. Usage is:  Is she glomping you? I think she was glomping me.

Guyatus: When a girl or woman takes time off of dating anyone, usually after a bad experience. She’s ’suffering from guyatus.’

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It’s a well-known fact that we’re constantly sending signals to people.  Body language, gestures and phrases all come into play.  What we may not realize, though, is how our appearance plays a part in sending signals, too.  From clothing to hair and make-up, we’re telling the world where we’re at emotionally.  Knowing what you’re showing can help you understand why you’re getting the reactions you are, and how to modify yourself to being irresistible.

Starting with hair: the length of your hair can reflect your personality.  The shorter and more stylish it is, the more it tells others you’re high-maintenance, high-strung and meticulous.  It can also be a signal of insecurity because of the constant upkeep.  The most girlfriend-friendly hairstyles are mid-length, from chin to shoulders.  You take care of yourself, but don’t overdo it.  Long hair can be two different things:  either you’re attempting to recapture or play on youthfulness (which can be a sign of desperation if you’re an older woman) or that you simply don’t care.

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Aren’t you really tired- exhausted, even- by your stalker?  How in the h-e-double-hockey stick do  they think not leaving you alone will make them attractive?  Seriously?  The tweets, the texts, the emails, the stopping by the flat randomly to say hello and then screaming at the neighbors to let them in are all…super-bad.  When a person likes someone, the best way to go about attracting them  is not scaring them silly. Just an idea.

It was interesting to find out that out of twelve women, at least one will be stalked in her life.  And for you men out there, you might be interested to find out one out of forty-five are going to be stalked. By other men. You’d envision Bunny Boilers, but you’re getting Harry Hares instead. Oh, yes, please.  Isn’t it nice to know someone finds you yummy?

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There are so many terms for ‘bad people’ that influence you in such negative ways.  Emotional leeches, psychic vampires, the hystericals and drama queens (a.k.a. social vamps).  We all have them in our circumference.  Many of us have to deal with them on a daily basis.  What a lot of us don’t take into account, however, is how they can affect our moods, personalities and even our health if we give them too much sway.  Our guilt plays a gruesome game between our conscience and our own needs- usually with guilt getting a leg up, over and under our skin.

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Doing the dating scene.  There are so many different aspects to it: the right clothes, the right lines and flirtation devices, getting a first date- and then going on it.  A lot of things can happen on that first date (or second, or third) and they can catch you off-guard, or even put you in a face-reddening situation with the man of your dreams- turning it into the last date you two will ever have.  There are some essential items every woman should bring along with her on a date.  A kind of dating First-Aid, if you will:

1. Cash Card/Bank Card

A cash card/bank card that’s actually got funds available.  Anything can happen, and cash is one of the best ways to get out of bad situations.  You might need an emergency taxi ride. Or your date might come up embarrassingly short.  Whether your date is going well or badly, anything can happen.  It literally pays to be prepared.

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Man is a social animal. Every individual feels the need of that special someone in life, at one point or the other. It gives a feeling of bliss, if you have someone with you who can share your joys, sorrows and life with you. Afineromance.com is a site which aims at helping individuals to find their soul mates.

This site offers free online dating service to singles looking for a soul mate as well as a successful long-term romantic relationship. There are more than thousands of internet dating sites available on the web, but this is one dating portal, which truly stands out. Firstly, it entertains only genuine members, who are seriously looking for a meaningful relationship. The site is extremely user friendly and allows the user to view profiles of potential mates, interact with them and post information about oneself. The best thing about the site is that one need not worry that the personal details would be leaked out.

The site allows an individual to find love and romance without the fear of being harassed or the details being misused. The members can even browse through categories for their specific choice for some religion, sports, hobbies or interests. Yes, it is that easy. If you are looking for a partner and have in mind some prerequisites like some qualities, interests or faith in a concept, all you need to do is to browse to the specific category and choose from the available choices and members. Finding love was never so easy!

If you want your man to love you forever, and fall truly in love with you, then read on…

There are just three things you have to do to have your man’s head spinning in love:

Let Him Know You Understand Him

You might think you know your man in and out, but on the other hand, your man might feel like you just don’t understand him at all. Try listening to him, even if he’s baby talking and babbling! Men hardly ever talk about their feelings, so when he tries telling you something in his own bumbling manner, try listening and make an effort to understand him.

Let Him Fall in Love with Your Feminine Face

A man feels like one when he’s with a woman who behaves like a woman. Captivate him with your grace and your beauty. He fell in love with you for the way you charmed him. Allure him with your femininity and he will be captivated by your elegance forever.

Make Him Feel Like a Man

A man wants to feel like one, and he feels like the best one when you tell him so. Compliment him when he does something that you couldn’t, or tell him something that makes him feel important and worthy of your attention, and watch him fall ahead over heels in love with you.

We’re all psycho when we it comes to dating games. We feel a teeny weeny bit jealous, insecure, frustrated or overly lovey-dovey once in a while. But at times, you may find that you’re dating a guy, who’s all that and more! So do these psycho-boys leave any clues behind? Of course, they do! Check these out, and see if your guy shows any of these signs. If he is, run out of his sight ‘with your’ arms high in the sky! This guy’s nothing but trouble!

Communication 24/7

We love exchanging all numbers possible when we’re in love. You want your man to have your cell phone number, your landlines and your office numbers, which is sweet, if not overdone. But psycho-boy can go all out. He’d give you his best friend’s number, and his granny’s! He’ll make it a point to call you every few minutes. You’ll have to make it a point to pick up the call, even if you’re in the loo! An unanswered call will be followed by messages that say, “Hey, it’s me” until it morphs into “I’ve called l2 times hunny, you’re pissing me off so bad I want to beat you! So where are you?”, and finally “Pick up the phone, bitch. I swear I’m going to boil you alive if you’re acting funny!”

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You might fall for a man for many reasons but one of the most apparent reasons to flip hard for a man may be his face. It has been seen that young women who are not looking for a serious relationship are more prone to fall for the men with masculine features that are prominent. Maybe that’s one of the reasons why girls love bad boys so much.

But on the other hand, women who are looking for a man with whom they want to spend their life with, usually look for softer features in men. They tend to prefer the cute baby faces any day over the rugged bad boys. This may be because women who are looking for a [tag]potential life partner[/tag] want to go out with a man who has a face that shows care and love more than anything else. Sexual appeal is put aside, and more emphasis is put into aspects that show that he has a side to him that loves kids or can relate to them.

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Do guys like it when gals make the first move? We heard it from the men themselves, and this is what they had to say.

So what do you do when you fall hard for a cute co-worker or your college crush? Do you just bat your eyelids and wait for him to ask you out, or do you just push his chair back, and strategically place your heel in between his thighs as you express your love for him? While you’ve probably heard plenty of contradicting opinions from everyone around you, including your friends, your mom, and your sweet old aunt, we decided to let the men speak for themselves.

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