We all love slang, and using slang to describe romance, until it gets over-killed. What was hot a year or two ago now seems so passe. Uber-uncool. If you’re jumping into the dating scene again, it might help to know a bit of the latest dating slang. Not necessarily to use it successfully, but at least to understand. Of course, there will be some reading these terms, rolling their eyes and saying: duh, that was so yesterday…! But many people in the mainstream are a few years behind the hipsters, and those facing dating again after a break or pause could use some wording up help:

The Ladies:

A bunny boiler: A woman who gets crazed, obsessive and is scary. From Fatal Attraction, the famous scene of the pot on the stove, boiling-?

To glomp: Similar to a bunny boiler, but less drastic- a little desperate. Usage is:  Is she glomping you? I think she was glomping me.

Guyatus: When a girl or woman takes time off of dating anyone, usually after a bad experience. She’s ’suffering from guyatus.’

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The popularity of Twitter is twinkling some eyes, while tweaking anger in others.  If you don’t Twitter, you’re painfully uncool- just take a look at the Twitterati.  Twitter can be addictive, fun and give you connections.  But can it affect your relationship?  The good and bad news for romance:  the Twitter singles scene is the new hot spot and already makes claims on success rates.  On the other hand, with Twitter there’s a new, faster way to be cheated on by your tweetheart.

Naysayers call it ‘blogging on amphetamines,’ but there are some benefits.  Staying in touch with and meeting people seems to rank highest on the list.  In other words, you’re never alone nor are you lonely.  While a lot of social sites are good for daily contact, Twitter is minute-by-minute.  For relationships, it’s a way to spend consistent time with your love when you’re apart.  With a new romance, it’s similar to speed dating, but sped up.  In business, those that Twitter have an edge on those who don’t.  Bloggers report an increase in visits, since the Twitter messages are so short,  leaving readers curious for more information.

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There are so many terms for ‘bad people’ that influence you in such negative ways.  Emotional leeches, psychic vampires, the hystericals and drama queens (a.k.a. social vamps).  We all have them in our circumference.  Many of us have to deal with them on a daily basis.  What a lot of us don’t take into account, however, is how they can affect our moods, personalities and even our health if we give them too much sway.  Our guilt plays a gruesome game between our conscience and our own needs- usually with guilt getting a leg up, over and under our skin.

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• Only 10% of people who leave marriages end up marrying the person with whom they had an affair.
• In an argument when your heart rate goes over 100 beats a minute, you are incapable of hearing what your partner is trying to tell you.
• 50% of men claim they would feel comfortable if their girlfriend had a lesbian lover!!
• The average man sees five women a day he would like to sleep with.
• 40% of women would consider dumping a boyfriend if her friends don’t like him.
• One Hour: The time it takes for a woman to determine whether or not she wants to see a man again.
• 15 Minutes: The time it takes for a man to determine whether or not he wants to see a woman again.

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You might fall for a man for many reasons but one of the most apparent reasons to flip hard for a man may be his face. It has been seen that young women who are not looking for a serious relationship are more prone to fall for the men with masculine features that are prominent. Maybe that’s one of the reasons why girls love bad boys so much.

But on the other hand, women who are looking for a man with whom they want to spend their life with, usually look for softer features in men. They tend to prefer the cute baby faces any day over the rugged bad boys. This may be because women who are looking for a [tag]potential life partner[/tag] want to go out with a man who has a face that shows care and love more than anything else. Sexual appeal is put aside, and more emphasis is put into aspects that show that he has a side to him that loves kids or can relate to them.

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Tongue Tied When You’re Out On a Date With A Gorgeous Girl, And You Have No Clue On How To Break The Ice? Six Words Are All You Need To Thaw The Ice And Have a Great Time…

Ever felt like you’re stuck in a date where you have no idea what to say, and you’d rather stare at the ‘artistic’ crack in the ceiling than look at your date, because you don’t have anything to say? Well, its simple really, to have a great date and sounds like a perfect smooth talker. All you need is a few words, and you could hold on a conversation for hours on end.

The next time your out on a date, and both of you are stuck in a vicious “you-talk-something-first” game, take the chance to pop the first question. It could be anything, but it’s preferable to start off about either the place your at, her taste in music, or the last movie she saw. I’m sure you’ll get at least one of these on target. Once you have a few questions popping in your mind and a few light bulbs bursting in your head, you’ve got the conversation started. Now this is when you need to use the six important words as beginnings. With these words, it is guaranteed that you can have a conversation that’s both constructive and enjoyable.

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… The Dictionary to understand women better…

What Women Say… What Women Think…    She usually says… A woman doesn’t think and talk in two different directions unlike the men, but sometimes they aren’t very different!  Am I fat? If you tell me I am, I’m just going to run to the refrigerator and gorge on my third round of chocolate pastries and chips to feel better!  Swear on me! Really, swear on me! Though I know I’m never going to drop dead, however hard you wish.  What are you doing? Now were you playing with yourself or is someone else in the bathroom?  You’re late! You’re always late!  Do you know what day is today? You forgot one of the special days in my life… like the 3rd day of my cycle.  Do I look good? Do you want to spend the night on the sofa?… then the answer better be Yes!  Listen to me… You bastard, wake up!!  Is that girl prettier than me? You better say no, buster!  How much do you love me? How much do you love me?  I shopped today! I’ve maxed our credit cards, don’t you think we need to get more of those?  Don’t you think we need more credit cards? Well, didn’t you just understand what I said?  Really?!!! There is where I drive the stake into your chest, unless I hear something more convincing!