One of the worst things that ever happened to women was the logic card.  We rate, we debate and we rationalize whether or not we should even bother with him.  What we’re forgetting- what we forget, consistently- is there are so many un-plucked, good guys that could be the answer.  Not Mr. Right, or Mr. Right Now, but Mr. Hello.  Mr. Nice to meet you.  Has Hollywood really destroyed your sense of romanticism and given you such unreal expectations that you’ll never take less?  Less is more, when you want a relationship.

Of course, you can wait for Brad Pitt…if you’re Jolie-equese.  If you’re one of the normal, average (yet beautiful) people you’ll need to start opening yourself up.  To possibility.  How much time are you wasting- and aging- by going through a negative list of how he doesn’t measure up?  It’s tiring and it’s an absolute waste of time.  He’s in your circumference if you look.  A friend, a colleague, the man who always remembers your favorite magazine in the shop.  The neighbor who always opens the door.  The mailman that puts  your letters priority.  Available, attainable men.  Good men that are waiting, in the back of their minds, for you.

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Did you know you have a love muscle that can help you enhance your love making activities, & last a lot longer? We help you find your love muscle.

Your love muscle is nothing but the PC muscle, and it has nothing to do with your biceps or a sexy back. PC stands for Pubococcygeus. It is a large muscle that goes around the anus and most of the floor of the pelvis. In women, the muscle fibres circle the sensitive regions that are well concealed, and in men, they pass under the prostate gland.

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If you want your man to love you forever, and fall truly in love with you, then read on…

There are just three things you have to do to have your man’s head spinning in love:

Let Him Know You Understand Him

You might think you know your man in and out, but on the other hand, your man might feel like you just don’t understand him at all. Try listening to him, even if he’s baby talking and babbling! Men hardly ever talk about their feelings, so when he tries telling you something in his own bumbling manner, try listening and make an effort to understand him.

Let Him Fall in Love with Your Feminine Face

A man feels like one when he’s with a woman who behaves like a woman. Captivate him with your grace and your beauty. He fell in love with you for the way you charmed him. Allure him with your femininity and he will be captivated by your elegance forever.

Make Him Feel Like a Man

A man wants to feel like one, and he feels like the best one when you tell him so. Compliment him when he does something that you couldn’t, or tell him something that makes him feel important and worthy of your attention, and watch him fall ahead over heels in love with you.

Have a lot of time to kill? Take on a love project and share the great moments of doing something special together.

Are you bored of having a lot of time in your hands and not knowing what to do with it? The both of you might have watched all the movies in town and been out to all the restaurants. Things can be boring if you have nothing to do, but you can also utilize this time to do something exciting and something that will bond the both of you together.

Planning It

First of all, the both of you will never be interested in doing this. One of you would rather laze than be busy doing something, so make sure you’re the one who’s going to initiate a project. It could be painting your room, a simple table stand or an ant farm, or maybe even a tree house! It can be really exciting to do this, and once you get all the things you would need, you can rest assured your partner would join you in your little project. It is really exciting once you plan the whole thing out and get the work rolling.

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“If music be the food of love… play on… says Shakespeare in the Twelfth Night.

If only love were like music… and could be turned on, and switched off at will! What makes this thing called love so interesting is that we seem to have no control at all over it. It is an emotion that we stumble into, and have to find our way. But we have real trouble when it comes to an end. It becomes hard to tear ourselves away.

Is Love then like Crazy Glue – it sticks fast, and is difficult to separate?

It would seem that way, and this is what makes it more of an enigma. One of the best ways to look at it is to detach ourselves from the emotional connect and to analyse it from a third person’s viewpoint. It is always easy to give each other people advice about love, or break-ups; however the problem is when it is happening to us. Here are some tips on how to handle this amazing emotion.

We have a need for certainity, just like we, paradoxically have a need for variety.

ENJOY THE EXPERIENCE

If we compare life to meal, where we could order what we liked from an endless menu of choices, and taste some of it – like we do at a Baskin Robbins Ice cream counter, life would surely be a lot more interesting and a lot more varied.

Then why we are, socially bound to commitments and promises of eternal loyalty?

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So how long do you think true love lasts? Forever? Perhaps. Switch to the next question. How long do you think passionate love lasts? Forever? Gotcha! Unfortunately, passionate love, according to researchers, comes with a timeline, which is significantly shorter than true love. According to studies, passionate heart pounding love lasts just under twelve months!

Enjoy It While It Lasts

That tingly feeling of love that people first experience when they fall in love and share the first moments together are at the peak during the start, and slowly start fading away. It’s no wonder most people cuddle up a lot more, instead of petting each other with passion, as the years crawl by. Italian researchers found that the chemical responsible for the intoxicating sense of being in love disappeared after a year even in couples who said that they still felt passionately about one another. In the tests that were conducted, it was seen that the couples who were still in the first few months of intense love had high levels of protein called Nerve Growth Factor (NGF). This made them feel flushed, nervous and excited. Those who reported the most intense emotions were also found to have the highest amount of the proteins.

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How Stinky Cheesy In Love Are You?

Romance and cheese may not have a lot in common, but they sure do have one twist that’s quite distinct. And that’s the fact that both of them can turn out to be quite a stinker!

Falling in love may be hard on the knees, but slipping on cheesy love can be just as disastrous. The difference between Casanova and Grimp the Pimp when it comes to love may not be much. It could all be just a matter of how sensitive and innovative they can be, and also which cheese they prefer over the rest!

WOOING YOUR MATE

The easiest way to impress your love is by giving gifts. Even an ogre with no taste or a prehistoric nomad would be able to tell you that much, but from that point onwards, it’s all about what you give and how you give it. An element of surprise always work though. The best way to pick a gift is by thinking of your mate as an individual rather than a member of bandwagon. And anything handmade or sentimental are always higher up on the charts, unless they’re pretty lame or boring. Let’s admit it, a pair of beady lopsided earings may be sweet, but can you really wear it out and wait for the flattery and appreciation to come in? Don’t think so.

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A lover’s touch does feel very different. It makes us feel warm and special. But why do we really feel different when we are touched in a special way? Read on to find out here…

The fact that we do feel different when we are caressed when compared to a normal touch has always bafled scientists all over, and finally the wise men have been able to figure out why a loving touch make us feel special.

Scientists have recently found that tender caresses stimulate a different part of the nervous system than that activated by the everybody sensation of touch. It has long been suspected that there are a few special nerves in our body that are involved in transmitting information to the brain when the skin is touched in a passionate way, but no one could clearly pinpoint the reason.

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The both of you have been snogging each other for almost forever…
But have you really tried them all?

Butterfly Kiss

With your faces less than a breath away, open and close your eyelids against your partner’s. If done correctly, the fluttering sensation will match the one in your heart.

Finger Kiss

While laying together gently suck on your partner’s fingers. This can be very seductive and pleasurable.

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