It’s Not the End But the Beginning of Romance
One of the worst things that ever happened to women was the logic card. We rate, we debate and we rationalize whether or not we should even bother with him. What we’re forgetting- what we forget, consistently- is there are so many un-plucked, good guys that could be the answer. Not Mr. Right, or Mr. Right Now, but Mr. Hello. Mr. Nice to meet you. Has Hollywood really destroyed your sense of romanticism and given you such unreal expectations that you’ll never take less? Less is more, when you want a relationship.
Of course, you can wait for Brad Pitt…if you’re Jolie-equese. If you’re one of the normal, average (yet beautiful) people you’ll need to start opening yourself up. To possibility. How much time are you wasting- and aging- by going through a negative list of how he doesn’t measure up? It’s tiring and it’s an absolute waste of time. He’s in your circumference if you look. A friend, a colleague, the man who always remembers your favorite magazine in the shop. The neighbor who always opens the door. The mailman that puts your letters priority. Available, attainable men. Good men that are waiting, in the back of their minds, for you.
