Extravagant But Worthless Gifts Are Best to Get a Girl

If you always thought that wasting money on wining and dining a lady was a total waste of time, maybe it’s time you think again.

Gifts from a man can act as a signal of a man’s intention and affection. Offering an expensive gift may signal a long term commitment but the man must be wary of being exploited by a gold digger who intends to dump him once she gets the gift. This may be a problem, but there’s another way to actually prove your love and win her heart, and this is by giving them extravagant gifts, which are costly to a man, but worthless to a woman.

An expensive gift signals to a woman that he has a long term interest in her, but when the gift is actually worthless like a dinner or a movie, all gold diggers are deterred.

Gift-giving by males is a feature of human courtship and mating systems in a number of species. Females invest more resources than males in offspring and so must take care to pick the best partner possible, something that’s not always easy to gauge from general cues such as appearance. In humans, a girl wants a guy who is attractive to her and will help raise their children. The worst pay-off, reproductively, is if she hooks up with an unattractive male who, literary, leaves her holding the baby.

Guys are less likely to offer expensive gifts to females they don’t have a long-term interest in. And girls won’t be impressed by cheap gifts. By offering expensive but worthless gifts, such as dinners and theatre trips, the male pays no cost if the invitation isn’t accepted. Girls that don’t find a guy attractive are less likely to take up the invitation because it would mean spending time with a person they aren’t interested in.

A guy wouldn’t want to splurge on a woman who doesn’t interest him, and a girl too, wouldn’t be interested in watching movies or enjoying dinners with a man who does not interest her. By this way, the guy is actually showing the girl that he can afford her, is very interested in being with her, and also at the same time, wants her to be really happy everywhere they go together and hence the reason why he takes her out to such expensive places.

A lot of research has been conducted on the same aspects and it has also been proved scientifically that the best way for a male to attract a female is by offering gifts that may be expensive to him, but of no monetary value or of any use to the female. The analysis has shown that there is an evolutionary logic in men ‘burning money’ to impress a girl!

So the next time you want to hook up with someone whom you’ve been dating for a while, and see a long term potential in the relationship, offer to take her out to a good restaurant or watch movies regularly. You would definitely be able to keep those gold diggers at bay, and at the same time, you can impress the perfect woman enough to sweep her off her feet!