Naysayers call it ‘blogging on amphetamines,’ but there are some benefits.  Staying in touch with and meeting people seems to rank highest on the list.  In other words, you’re never alone nor are you lonely.  While a lot of social sites are good for daily contact, Twitter is minute-by-minute.  For relationships, it’s a way to spend consistent time with your love when you’re apart.  With a new romance, it’s similar to speed dating, but sped up.  In business, those that Twitter have an edge on those who don’t.  Bloggers report an increase in visits, since the Twitter messages are so short,  leaving readers curious for more information.

There are many advocates for Twitter, but the drawbacks are plenty.  Yes, you might actually stay in touch with your family on a more regular basis, but you can also find yourself suffering from cravings or depression if no one contacts you.  Twitter addiction could destroy your relationship.  Look at Jen Aniston and Jon Mayer.  How romantic, going on a date with someone who’s describing their feelings to the world, instead of telling the person across from them.  That lack of personal connection increases the chances of a break-up.

How is this affecting communication?  Compiling all of your thoughts into 140 symbols, every time you think, is good for self-expression.  Sacrificing your realities, however, into sound-bytes isn’t.  As if we weren’t dumbed down enough by abbreviations and lack of real contact, we have less space and time.  There’s also the fact that social networking sites were already hotbeds for opening the cheating door.  Twitter doubles the speed, doubles the fun.  It allows for a blink-and-you’ll-miss-it transgression.  And don’t forget that the details can be publicized after, to entire communities of people.  Quadrupled humiliation in a fraction of a moment.

Twitter might be the little black dress of gadgetry at the moment, but it won’t be long before someone comes up with even shorter, faster communication.  Perhaps one day soon it’ll be the freshest, hottest trend to just send electronic grunts, reverting back to caveman speech.  Via technology.

It’s actually got a psychological term that’s been scientifically proven:  emotional contagion.  Think back through the years to all of those you’ve known that were needy, clingy, continuously vicious and enraged, the people that once you left them you felt absolutely drained.  You were in a good mood, and it can take less than minutes for a ‘negative’ personality to wipe that joy slate clean.  They might have even left you feeling downright surly.  Neuroscience says that deeply unhappy people infect others, because we are subconscious mirrors to those around us.  Spending a lot of time with certain people, we pick up their gestures, their phrases and eventually their behavior.  We’re unconscious mimics- or unconscious hosts.  Identify the types:

• Emotional Leeches: these are the people that are always in need, always come to you for advice, phone you up, and never solve their problems.  They feed off of your sympathy and kindness, coming back for more.  In extreme cases, they may even go the serial liar path just to have a constant influx of badness.  They can be friends, co-workers or family.  The only thing that matters:  they’re sucking the glee out of you, walking away feeling ’so much better.’

• Psychic Vampires: a sub-let to leeches, they’re more specified and professional.  They have, dunno, special needs?  These are people who need to start arguments, or flirt outrageously, or those that kill everyone with kindness and then lap up the guilt.  They only feel satisfied if they get the ‘required’ response.  They walk away from the encounter with relief, while you’re left reacting.

• Drama Queens: they can’t exist without an audience.  They can be awkward, embarrassing, bullying, over-running the conversation to be ‘me, me, me’ focused and are pretty obnoxious. Part of the reason they become part of our lives is that initially they can be fun. Entertaining, even, if we feel a little bored.  Unfortunately, they never let up.  They’re insensitive to anyone’s needs, and tend to throw tantrums if they’re even mildly not paid attention to.

• The Hystericals: an off-shoot of drama queens.  Hystericals notch it up 2 decibels.  Ranting, raving, screaming, crying at the drop of a hat, inappropriate laughter that rings hours after a meeting.  It’s always the end of the world for these people.

There is good news, though- if you attract them, it means you’re generally happy and stable.  Getting rid of them is tough on guilt-trips but you have to stay strong.  Limit contact, if you can’t sever it completely.  They’ll keep trying to come back.  Don’t waver.  Just remember:  happiness is the left side of the brain and it’s logical.  Anger, resentment or depression are all right-siders, and they’re irrational.  Cleansing yourself of external negativity means you’re in the right frame of mind, even if your head’s a southpaw.

1. Cash Card/Bank Card

A cash card/bank card that’s actually got funds available.  Anything can happen, and cash is one of the best ways to get out of bad situations.  You might need an emergency taxi ride. Or your date might come up embarrassingly short.  Whether your date is going well or badly, anything can happen.  It literally pays to be prepared.

2. Mobile/Cell

There’s the chance you might need to get out of your date, for an ‘emergency,’ if you’re on a nightmare date.  Be tactful with it- put it on vibrate, don’t reply to texts from your friends during a conversation.

3. Lip-goo/Gloss/lipstick/chap stick

Your lips are one of your most sell-able assets you have on a date, and where men’s eyes linger.  There’s nothing worse than having it wear-off halfway, or get smudged across your chin- which will have him staring at you for all of the wrong reasons.

4. Mini-perfume

Perfume can fade.  You don’t want to smell like the dinner you’ve just both eaten, make a discreet visit to the Ladies and refresh.  Don’t bathe in it- some people have allergies.  It isn’t romantic watching your date sneeze every 5 seconds.

5. Eye-liner/eye-shadow

Make-up bleeds, runs, drips.  Raccoon eyes are sexy on the runway (depending on the fashion), but not on a date.  If you’ve got a pimple, bring your cover-stick to do touch-ups throughout the night.

6. Pony-tail holder/clip

If you’re out together for a long evening, it’s useful to be able to not only let your hair down but put it up.  This is especially true for those nights out dancing, or activity dates.

7. Light Sweater

For all seasons (winter being the exception), the weather can change instantly.  Having something along with you- just in case- helps not distract him from your beauty to your goosebumps or shirt-bumps.

8. Chewing Gum/mints

Eating, drinking coffee, drinking- all of these can leave a nasty residue in your mouth- you don’t want to taste like regurgitated food.  Don’t leave the gum for the last moment, using it continually through the night makes you more kissable.

9. Clean Undies

This is for more advanced dates, clearly.  But as our mothers always told us, you can never be too careful.  There’s the added plus of wearing comfortable undies for the date and swapping for sexy ones towards the end of the evening.

10. Condoms

Whatever your birth control preferences, condoms are a dating staple.  Having more than one handy (you really never do know where the night will take you) gives you the relief of not running around town looking for an open mini-mart.

It’s fun dating and (possibly) mating.  With these few essentials to carry with you on your date, you’ll be prepared for everything and anything.

Americans

Let me start out by taking a breather.  Seriously.  U.S. men smell so good.  It’s part of the hygiene protocol- they’re either clean-shaven or trimmed facially, they dress to impress- in other words, they actually think about presentation to the opposite sex.  They also flirt well, just enough but not too much to be creepy.  Usually.  The downside:  they tend to over-analyze and are cocky.

Australians

Australians are the coolest cats.  Maybe it has something to do with living in imminent danger of the 40,000 poisonous creatures in a stones’ throw, but they’re virtually un-ruffle-able.  They tend to be fit, have a dry sense of humor and are blunt.  Blunt in a relaxed, no worries, mate, kind of way.  They’re pretty open about libidos, which is refreshing.  The only negs are they can be too easy-going and not into a commitment.

Chileans

It’s probably unfair, as I’ve only dated one.  But he was:  hot, sexy, sensual and dressed up as a clown in his free time.  No, really.  A clown.  A female clown, at that.  He’s probably one of the sexiest men I’ve met- excepting queer hobbies- and had great qualities.  Confident, undemanding, yet sentimental and passionate.  And I’ll bet he was even sexy as a woman.

Czechs

Czech men are…not the most hygienic bachelors in the bunch.  There’s always a little jaw-scruff, a bit of a paunch.  They’re this strange dynamic of manly man meets child.  They’re quite shy, afraid of doing or saying the wrong thing and avoid conflict at all costs.  They spend most of their time with their friends in the pub, and many up-to-28-year-olds still live with mommy.

English

The English may have hot water bottles to keep them company in bed, but they also have a cracking wit and simmering sensuality hidden beneath the politesse.  Ignoring the hooligan phenomena, some English men have difficulty in expressing depth of feeling.  “I want to ravish you senseless!” becomes “Erm, it wouldn’t necessarily be a bad thing, you and I.”

French

Oooh la la.  Getting beyond the twitter-pations of that yummy accent, there’s the additional Gallic gallantry to enjoy.  No chair goes un-pulled, no door unopened, no smoldering glance left un-lingered.  Add to that a nice bottle of red and a 3-hour meal, it’s a short hop to infatuation.  The only negative is that French men have SASD after a romantic conquest, most times.

Romanians

Originally Roman (thus the name).  No, they aren’t all vampires.  They do have that Mediterranean atmosphere, though:  emotional zig-zag, passionate, dramatic and protective to a fault.  When they’re in love, boy are they.  The things to be aware of with Romanian men is that: they can have old-fashioned ideas about gender roles or are intolerant of any change.  Any.

That’s my (lucky?) 7.  Hopefully, it was helpful for you dating hopefuls out there.  At the very least, I hope it was mildly entertaining or enlightening.

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Whether it is your first kiss or you have experience doing so, you need to avoid some unworthy actions, which can contaminate the taste of your kiss. Practicing of these actions can deteriorate your relation with your partner and deprive you from the experience of a magical kiss.

Bad Breathing

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Coughing and Sneezing

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Your love muscle is nothing but the PC muscle, and it has nothing to do with your biceps or a sexy back. PC stands for Pubococcygeus. It is a large muscle that goes around the anus and most of the floor of the pelvis. In women, the muscle fibres circle the sensitive regions that are well concealed, and in men, they pass under the prostate gland.

DOES IT REALLY HELP?

The PC muscle supports the contents of the pelvis, prevents urine incontinence, and (the best bit) increases sexual pleasure for females and males. Women with strong PC muscles often say that they have more toned-up nether regions and can reach orgasm more easily. Many men who have trained their love muscle find that it allows them to delay orgasm and prevent premature ejaculation. A few men also say it lets them have two or more orgasms in a row without needing a ‘rest’ in between.

HOW DO YOU FIND IT?

Next time you pee, try to tighten up and stop the flow of urine. Notice the sensation, that’s from tightening your PC muscle. Try it a few times to get the hang of it. Try squeezing it during sex to see if you like the sensation it causes, and ask if your partner likes it too.

WANNA WORK OUT?

To make those love muscles stronger, you have to work out. The exercises are called Kegels, and usually involve tensing for two seconds, then relaxing for two seconds. Kegel exercises are repeated several times for a few minutes every day, and most people have noticeable results in a couple of months.

Now that you know how you can last longer and enjoy a better sex life, go on and work those muscles!

David DeAngelo’s Double your Dating