Should You Ask Him Out?
Do guys like it when gals make the first move? We heard it from the men themselves, and this is what they had to say.
So what do you do when you fall hard for a cute co-worker or your college crush? Do you just bat your eyelids and wait for him to ask you out, or do you just push his chair back, and strategically place your heel in between his thighs as you express your love for him? While you’ve probably heard plenty of contradicting opinions from everyone around you, including your friends, your mom, and your sweet old aunt, we decided to let the men speak for themselves.
- 80% of the guys who polled at our website said that they would absolutely appreciate the woman who would ask him out to get together!
- 10% said that they wouldn’t mind being given subtle hints, but they wanted to be the one to ask the girl out.
- 10% said that they wouldn’t like it if the girl made the first move. They preferred the old world chivalry and wanted to be the one to ask the girl out themselves.
A few chivalrous men wondered aloud if the thrill of the chase was lost in this new millennia woman, but on the other hand, women believe that asking a guy out themselves showed that they were confident, independent, and not afraid of failure!
So if you want to go ahead and ask this man out, go right ahead, but do remember to be casual and upfront, rather than clingy and desperate. Instead of saying “I love you” (duh!), say something like, “Hey, would you like to go out this Saturday?” And we can assure you, he’ll be flattered!
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Ahh… too bad it doesn’t work the other way around. All women usually have to do is let the guy know they want to go out and that’s it! Basically you have a 90% chance that the guy is all for it (if he’s single.) But for guys it’s much more difficult, sadly.
Thought you’d never ask!
course the guy will say yes 90% of the time. he’s not going to accidentally get pregnant by someone who turns out to be a complete loser!
Actually i don’t mind at all when the girl make the first move, what she will lose anyway? she will just reveal things that she kept inside, and that’s good in some cases, maybe she got stuck with that person for life and get married one day :d
Generally, I don’t think it matters who makes the first move. So long as someone does. How many times have you sat there waiting for him or her to make the first move when you could have done it yourself. How many times as a possible relationship been lost because neither of you made a move?