Sneaky Ways To Tell He’s Serious About You

It’s so easy to believe your new guy when he says he loves you. Lust is so easy to recognise, but what about true, heart felt, honest-to-goodness, found-The-One love? That could be a lot trickier, but you could use these little sneaky ways to find out if he’s really serious about you.

Stroke his Jealous Streak

Pass remarks about a cute guy on the street, or hold a hot male co-worker in your arms as you introduce him. See if he’s alright or whether he gets pissed off about it. If he fails to feel just a little competitive, be may be lukewarm in his feelings for you. Just don’t go overboard with this little quiz unless you want to lose him completely.

He’s just a friend

This works well. Why? If he doesn’t care what you call him in front of your friends, be obviously doesn’t care about the status of your relationship. But if he’s smitten, he’ll rush to explain that you’re more than platonic when you say you’re just good pals.

Is he carrying additional baggage?

You know what this means. We’ve all seen it happen, you have a few glorious days with him, and soon, you find yourself staring at the business end of an outbreak of an ‘ex’ or ‘two-time’ baggage. Get to know about his exes early on, so you can get a mental rest and you can get to know better about his personality. A healthy honey will just say something along of lines of “it didn’t work out, but we still get along.”

What do his friends say?

What do they know about you? Are they warm towards you, or do you find them poking some wise ass remarks and sniggering behind you? Do they know what you do for a living? Ask you about your hobbies? Say they’ve “heard a lot about you” when you’re introduced? Sounds like your guy’s been talking you up, something he only does when he expects you’ll be around for a long time.

Notice his little signs

Does he check his phone messages when you’re still in the room? Is he warm and friendly with you, inespective of whoever is around? Does his secretary put you right through when you call him at work, or does she have to ask what you’re calling in regard to? Has he started wearing that sweater all the time since you complimented him on it? Actions speak louder than words… what are his actions saying to you?