Your Appearance Is Sending Unconscious Signals
It’s a well-known fact that we’re constantly sending signals to people. Body language, gestures and phrases all come into play. What we may not realize, though, is how our appearance plays a part in sending signals, too. From clothing to hair and make-up, we’re telling the world where we’re at emotionally. Knowing what you’re showing can help you understand why you’re getting the reactions you are, and how to modify yourself to being irresistible.
Starting with hair: the length of your hair can reflect your personality. The shorter and more stylish it is, the more it tells others you’re high-maintenance, high-strung and meticulous. It can also be a signal of insecurity because of the constant upkeep. The most girlfriend-friendly hairstyles are mid-length, from chin to shoulders. You take care of yourself, but don’t overdo it. Long hair can be two different things: either you’re attempting to recapture or play on youthfulness (which can be a sign of desperation if you’re an older woman) or that you simply don’t care.


