When Your Man’s Not In The Mood
Ever heard your man say that he’s not up for sex? Probably not, but surprisingly, men too feel unsexy at times. You don’t have to worry about yourself though, it’s not your fault he hates sex. Read on to find out what can make his manhood go limp.
Beer bellies
In a study of nearly 2,000 men conducted by the Harvard School of Public Health, those with 42 inch waists or larger were twice as likely to have problems getting a hard on as those with 32-inch waists. Researchers suspect that’s because they had risk factors for heart disease, high blood pressure, high cholestrol, and inactivity, which compromises the blood flow to several important regions, including their manhood.
What can YOU do about it?
Drag him to the gym, and restrict him to a low fat diet.
When you’ve got a fatter wallet
Sometimes, its really hard to understand men. When you earn more, their ego deflates and by some weird side effect, so does their manhood. If your husband believes he’s not providing for his family, he may feel less masculine, and less interested in sex!
What can YOU do about it?
Offer to take him out to a swanky restaurant? Nope! Sit down in your living room, and talk to your spouse about this issue.
When he’s licking his wounds
Every man thinks he’s Hercules, and so does his ego. A lot of their identity is tied up with their male prowess and strength. If a recent injury bothers him while having sex, and he cannot fully enjoy himself, it makes a man less masculine. He would be worried if his injury might take him less than satisfactory in bed, and the pain would make him doubt his sexual ability.
What can YOU do about it?
Indulge in a lot of cuddling. Play with him, and let him feel comfortable. Help him regain his confidence.
Tags:manhood, mood disorders, sexual health sexual problems
Has it ever occurred to you that perhaps the reason men aren’t always in the mood is because the woman needs to be dragged to the gym.
There is only one time during which a woman’s belly should be bigger than her breasts. It’s called pregnancy.
Or perhaps it could be the constant nagging that men get in addition to having their wallets continually emptied by their gold-digger wives and girlfriends.
I particularly love this comment:
“What can YOU do about it?
Offer to take him out to a swanky restaurant? Nope! Sit down in your living room, and talk to your spouse about this issue.”
Great advice, nag him, this is just what he needs. Rubbing his face in his employment failures will certainly guarantee you’ll get laid.
Want some real advice, shut up and masturbate, that’s what billions of men have been stuck doing (with great success) for hundreds of thousands of years while listening to trillions of “I’m too tired…” statements from women.
If your man isn’t interested, it’s either because you’re hideously ugly or he’s gay! There, I’ve spoken the truth!
I am 30 yrs old he is 46. I am fit, good looking and a good girlfriend to him. He said he’s not too sure why he’s not in the mood right now. We’ve been dating for 1.5 years now. Talking about marriage. He and I have never been married. He said maybe its the thought of ending a part o fhis singlehood. He said he wants to be with only me just doesn’t feel that sexual urge. Me on the other haand I feel like I could have sex 3 times a day right now. He has put on wieght 20 lbs. in lasst year. He said that has worn on him too. I try to help. But I am starting tofeel neglected and alone. Maybe masterbating is the only solution for me right now. Then just be supportive of him and try to comfort him. Snuggle extra.